In Brendon Burchard's The Motivation Manifesto, there’s a powerful declaration that resonates with anyone striving to live a life of intention: "We shall reclaim our agenda." This declaration isn’t just about taking control of our time; it's about protecting our energy, our goals, and our sense of self-worth. I found myself in a situation where I had to learn this lesson the hard way—a story that reflects both my struggles and triumphs of reclaiming my 'agenda'.

The Trap of People-Pleasing

When I first started out as an independent consultant exactly 10 years ago from this day, I was eager to prove myself. So, when someone I saw as a potential client asked for my help with a significant business/IT challenge their organization faced, I jumped at the opportunity. He needed ideas on how to approach this problem, and I was more than willing to assist. Over the course of a few weeks, I spent over 40 hours brainstorming, creating slides, and refining solutions...